Finding Yourself Again in a Twin Flame Relationship: A Journey of Self-Discovery

my only goal when i started my twin flame journey was to be in union

When I started my Twin Flame journey, all I wanted was to be with my Twin Flame person.

Everything revolved around when and how will my Union happen.

I read tons of books searching for answers on how to make Union possible.

i thought when i´ll have my twin flame in my life, i´ll be problem free

I also thought being with my Twin Flame would solve all my problems.

Once I am with them, I will be happy, fulfilled, and living my best life.

Oh, how naive I was! I realized that you first need to become the one you are so desperately searching for.

When you know what you desire in your partner, the next step is embodying those qualities within.

it´s important to find happiness within you

It is easy to see another person as a source of everything good, but the genuine path to happiness is finding it inside yourself too.

You are not lacking anything. You have everything that you see in your Twin Flame inside your heart.

How do I know that you might ask yourself?

Well the simple yet profound answer would be that you are actually seeking God in your Twin Flame because He is your true Source.

You can only have everything you desire when you connect deeply with God.

When you find God deep inside your being- you connect easily with your Beloved.

Everyone has God within, at their core, but still, most of us block our contact with the Divine inside us.

ways we block divine love from our lives

We blocked it by not listening to our feelings, guidance, intuition…

It might have started slowly without us not even noticing the disconnection, but with more and more neglect of ourselves, we slowly started to feel numbed out.

Then we started to listen to our minds more than our hearts.

learning to listen to your feelings

However, for a relationship with your true Twin Flame, you need to listen to your feelings- what your heart is saying.

Sit still for a few moments, and drop your attention to your heart center.

If you find that hard- it is because you blocked access to your heart.

You will need to learn how to connect with yourself again.

how to feel your feelings again if you are numbed out to them

That means you would have to set boundaries with people who don´t actually appreciate you, and that also means having to stand up for yourself when it is hard.

It might mean you will need to search for your true life purpose instead of settling for a job you hate. It might mean ending a relationship with a karmic partner that you know has no future, yet it feels familiar and comfortable.

It means saying “Yes” to who you really are and not to who you think you are because your surroundings told you so.

Deep down, you know who you are, but you are resisting it so badly that it hurts so much that you numb it out.

Your true essence, your core, your heart- it feels so Divine.

You are almost scared of how good it feels to be you.

That is why you believe lies of other people who see you in a certain- often wrong way. 

most people want you to be someone you are not (your false self)

Most people want to mold you into a character they see fit for you without even recognizing who you are.

In thinking you need to submit to those wishes, guess what- you lost yourself.

But it does not feel good not to be you. In that moment, we often meet our Twin Flames for the first time. 

our twin flame helps us recognize who we truly are

Then, we are again reminded of our authentic selves. We see our true selves in them!

And we recognize that it feels remarkable to see ourselves again.

That feels good for a certain period of time until the fear sneaks in.

Then we separate from our Beloveds because it becomes too much for us!

excuses we make not to be with our twin flames when we are scared of the connection

We get scared of abandonment; we think we are not good enough, and we get scared of love! Everyone has different set of “excuses” not to be with their Twin Flame.

And, yet, we desire so much the person we are most scared of.

Do you know why?- Because you are so scared of yourself and God within you.

That is the reason you ran away from yourself in the first place.

Now is the time to get back to you, so you are here, reading this.

The good news is: there is help in finding yourself; in finding God, and eventually reuniting with your Twin Flame!

your guidance led you here because you need support

It´s listening to your guidance that led you here. 

Trust is also when it says to reach out for help because you can be helped.

That is my life purpose- to help you navigate the Twin Flame path, and I am waiting for you to reach out to me!